Women have the tendency to change different things to better suit their needs and might even attempt to do that with our partners, but before even trying, you should keep in mind that there are a few things you’ll never change about your man, no matter how hard you would might want that.
Men aren’t as complicated as you might think, so they are not so hard to understand.
That’s why, when he tells you to stop trying to change him, that’s precisely what’s he intends. There’s no hidden meaning and he does know what’s best for him.
So, I invite you to read on and find out what are the most surprising things you’ll never change about your man.
1. He Will Always Watch Sports
This is definitely one of the things you’ll never change about your man! Most of them are not even a one-sport man; they pretty much love them all. Don’t try to take this pleasure away from him! The best thing you can do is to just let him watch whatever he wants and take advantage of the time he spends in front of the TV. The game only lasts for a finite time and he will appreciate you even more for not nagging him!
2. He Will Always Lie to You
Don’t worry, I’m not talking about big fat lies, but about those little white lies that he will tell you in order to make you feel good about yourself. So, he will never tell you that you don’t look good in a certain dress or that he doesn’t like your parents so much or that he forgot to pay the electricity bill. Remember, he only does this because he doesn’t wanna see you upset!
3. He Will Look at Other Women
Okay, this is one of the things I really don’t like about guys, but apparently they just can’t help it. After all, looking is not cheating and you must admit that sometimes you are tempted to do the same when you notice some good looking guy coming your way. We’re only human and this behavior of his shouldn’t upset you!
4. He Will Never Care about Clothes
This may not always be true, but most men I know will never care as much about clothes as their girlfriends or wives do. This is just the way they’re built and they just don’t care about fashion. They like to look good, but they just hate to shop, needless to say, worry about what would they wear tomorrow at work or on your night out. That’s just the way they are. There’s nothing you can do about it and you should learn to accept it!
5. He Will Always Be a Mama’s Boy
I know a few people who will disagree with me on this one, but I really believe guys are very attached to their mothers, no matter how old they are. This is understandable, because after all, his mom is the first woman who he met and loved and who taught him to be the great guy that he is now. So, maybe now and then you should thank his mom for raising such a wonderful son!
6. He Will Never Talk about His Feelings
I know women are more romantic and that’s why they would love to communicate more and talk about their feelings with those special men in their life. That’s just not gonna happen and you should accept the fact that your man is different and more pragmatic, thus more straight-forward. They do think it’s important to communicate well, so that your relationship would work, but they don’t wanna exaggerate and spend all their time talking about their feelings. So, just accept that and move on. There are other things that are more important than the amount of time your man spends talking about what’s on his mind.
7. He Is a Beer Buff
Men love beer. Maybe you don’t understand this, but for him a beer with the guys, is more than this. It’s basically the way most men prefer to relax after a hard day at work, after they failed at doing something or just to catch up with their friends. This also doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, but just like you need your time with the girls, he also needs his guy time. And, what better way to spend it, than drinking a cold beer with his friends?
8. He Resents You for Taking So Long to Get Ready
This is a thing almost all men share: the fact that they resent you for taking so long to get ready. They like you to look good, but they just can’t understand why you have to spend so much time trying to look nice when you always look perfect, even without your make-up on or without some fancy clothes. You should feel flattered if your man thinks this way, so try to hurry up a bit the next time you’re going somewhere.
9. He Will Always Love Video-Games
Maybe you don’t get this and maybe you don’t understand why he spends so much time playing some video-game for hours without getting bored. My advice is to not even try to understand him. Just accept the fact that deep down, he is still a little child who likes playing games, even if some of them might be very violent and aggressive. I know you might not like it, but there’s pretty much nothing you can do about it.
I suspect that there might be a lot of things you would wanna change about your man; I know I’m tempted to do so, every now and then. Some of you have even tried to do it but without any luck and you have accepted the fact that there’s nothing you can do to change him, despite all your efforts. So, can you tell me what other things you’ll never change about a man? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section
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